She was named Sinéad after Sinéad de Valera, the mom of the physician who presided over her supply (Éamon de Valera, Jnr.), and Bernadette in honour of Saint Bernadette of Lourdes. She was the third of 5 kids; an older brother is the novelist Joseph O’Connor Her dad and mom had been John Oliver “Seán” O’Connor, a structural engineer later turned barrister and chairperson of the Divorce Motion Group, and Johanna Marie O’Grady (1939–1985), who married in 1960 on the Church of Our Girl of Good Counsel, Drimnagh, Dublin. She attended Dominican Faculty Sion Hill faculty in Blackrock, County Dublin.
In her 2021 memoir, Rememberings, O’Connor wrote that she was recurrently overwhelmed by her mom, who additionally taught her to steal from the assortment plate at Mass and from charity tins. In 1979, at age 13, O’Connor went to dwell along with her father, who had just lately returned to Eire after marrying Viola Margaret Suiter (née Prepare dinner) in Alexandria, Virginia, United States, in 1976.[26]
On the age of 15, following her acts of shoplifting and truancy, O’Connor was positioned for 18 months in a Magdalene asylum, the Grianán Coaching Centre in Drumcondra, which was run by the Order of Our Girl of Charity. She thrived in sure elements, notably within the improvement of her writing and music, however she chafed underneath the imposed conformity of the asylum, regardless of being given freedoms not granted to the opposite ladies, similar to attending an outdoor faculty and being allowed to take heed to music, write songs, and many others. For punishment, O’Connor described how “if you happen to had been unhealthy, they despatched you upstairs to sleep within the previous of us’ house. You’re in there within the pitch black, you possibly can odor the shit and the puke and every part, and these previous girls are moaning of their sleep … I’ve by no means—and doubtless won’t ever—expertise such panic and terror and agony over something.” She later attended Maryfield Faculty in Drumcondra, and Newtown College in Waterford for fifth and sixth yr as a boarder, however didn’t sit the Leaving Certificates in 1985.
On 10 February 1985, when O’Connor was 18, her mom died in a automotive accident, aged 45, after dropping management of her automotive on an icy street in Ballybrack and crashing right into a bus. In June 1993, O’Connor wrote a public letter in The Irish Instances by which she requested folks to “cease hurting” her: “If solely I can battle off the voices of my dad and mom / and collect a way of vanity / Then I’ll be capable to REALLY sing …” The letter repeated accusations of abuse by her dad and mom as a toddler which O’Connor had made in interviews. Her brother Joseph defended their father to the newspaper however agreed relating to their mom’s “excessive and violent abuse, each emotional and bodily”. That month, Sinéad stated: “Our household could be very tousled. We will’t talk with one another. We’re all in agony. I for one am in agony.”
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